What to Consider When Planning a Funeral

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author/source: Maria O'Shea

Photo Courtesy of Pexels CC0 LicenseHaving to plan a funeral isn't something that anyone wishes to do. However, there will usually come a time in your life when you're responsible for this task. Some people may even choose to plan their own funerals so that there is less to organize after they have gone. If you find yourself needing to arrange a funeral, just knowing where to start can be hard. You're dealing with grief and may have many other things to do, such as sorting out the estate. But you need to start somewhere, and there are lots of things to think about.

Covering the Costs

Funeral expenses can be concerning for a lot of people. Funerals are often expensive, and you might worry about where the money will come from. There are various ways you could meet the costs. There might be money in the deceased's estate or they might have prepaid for their funeral. In the case of an accidental death, a wrongful death lawyer might help you to seek compensation to cover the costs of the funeral and other expenses. You might pay from your own savings or split the cost among family members. Borrowing money could also be an option to consider.

Photo Courtesy of Pexels - CC0 LicenseTypes of Funeral Service

There are various options to consider when planning a funeral or memorial service. You might plan a religious service, or it might not be religious. Some people choose a humanist funeral or something similar. You can choose between burial or cremation, or you might want to explore alternative options for the body. Different methods might interest you, depending on whether you want something that's environmentally friendly or just something that's a little unusual. You could also consider what will be included in the day, whether there is a formal ceremony, a wake or reception, or even a party.

The Wishes of the Deceased

Many people want to ensure the wishes of the deceased are taken into account when planning a funeral. Some people plan their own funerals in advance. They might have paid for a funeral plan, or they might simply have expressed their wishes for what they would like the funeral to look like. It's a topic that many people discuss before they die, but it's also something that their loved ones might be able to deduce from who they are and what mattered to them in life.

Letting People Know

When planning a funeral, one of the most important things is letting people know when and where it is. Funerals often welcome anyone who wants to come, although some may be close to everyone except the closest friends and family. There are various ways to notify people about the funeral, including posting a notice in a newspaper (which will often be published online too), emailing, calling, and posting online through social media. You can decide how public you want to be and who you want to tell.

There are lots of things to consider when planning a funeral. If you need support, ask for help from other relatives or friends.