How To Transform Your Life in 90 Days
- Therese Nicklas
- Dec 27, 2025
- 5 min read
From Money Fear to Financial Freedom:
One Woman's Journey

The Silent Worry Of Successful Women
Did you know that 78% of successful executive women admit they worry about their financial future? Not the day-to-day money management, but the big stuff. Like, if their paycheck stopped tomorrow, they worry about how long they could survive without an income. A recent Fidelity study of women in the C-Suite, who make million-dollar decisions for their company, found that they lose sleep because they lack confidence and clarity about their financial future.
Confidence at Work ≠ Confidence With Money
What can they do to end the stress of financial uncertainty? Get answers to their money questions. Sounds simple, right? So what’s the problem? Trust. When asked, women responded by stating they didn’t have anyone they felt comfortable having money conversations with that would make them feel heard. They blamed feeling judged and intimidated as keeping them from getting help, even though they are successful in their careers. As a result, the questions that keep them up at night often go unanswered.
Getting answers to your money questions is essential and absolutely achievable. Knowing how to speak openly about money builds confidence to ask for what you deserve in all areas of your life.

Why Money Is Triggering For Women
Sadly, I’ve seen examples of this reality my whole life. Growing up, the subject of money in my family was like walking through a field of landmines. My parents fought over money all the time. I had no idea until much later that money conversations were a hot button in most households, and why most people (especially women) avoid the subject.
What Decades Of Money Conversations Taught Me
As a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™, Certified Success, Money & Business Coach, I’ve had a front row seat to the money concerns successful women kept under lock and key until we met. The stress of not knowing, the pressure to have the answers because they are so successful everywhere else, and the constant worry that something important may fall through the cracks was their normal.
Financial Freedom Isn’t A Number
After decades of working with them, I realized it wasn’t the numbers keeping them trapped, it was the unasked questions. Brilliant, successful women felt uncertain because they lacked a platform to have money conversations in a way that felt safe and/or judgment-free. And it’s why I transformed my company from a typical wealth management firm. Today, I specialize in guiding women to transform money fear into clarity and confidence so they make empowered money decisions and create financial freedom.
What’s Possible When The Right Questions Get Answered
I want to share a story of my client, Toni, who transformed her life from fear and uncertainty to clarity, purpose, and financial freedom in 90 days…
Meet Toni
Toni was a woman I will never forget. Working with her was inspiring. She was the type of client who showed up ready for change. Every exercise, every assignment was done thoroughly and completely. If I were to give her a grade, it would be an A+. Toni took my advice and did the work. As I tell clients, hiring me alone won’t help you achieve your goals; you must do the work!
Toni was single, never married, and didn’t have any children. While working full-time in a high-level career, Toni was the primary caregiver for her two elderly parents. When they passed, Toni did what many women in her situation do – she turned her attention to herself and her future.
The Questions That Kept Her Trapped
She reached out to me during the COVID-19 pandemic. Even though she worked her entire adult life and was a diligent saver, she didn’t feel confident she saved enough to stop working, and like many, had no idea how much savings would be enough.
And, beyond the money questions, she worried about the void retirement might create, and how to fill it. She had no clear picture of how she would spend her time or what life would cost until we began working together.

Clarity Changes Everything
By working together using the 90 Day Wealth Coaching process, Toni’s perspective on her future changed dramatically. Our coaching conversations helped her envision her retirement life clearly. I encouraged her to imagine a big, bold life, and slowly she began to get excited about the potential of ending the career that she enjoyed for decades. After analyzing her financial position, we discovered that she was in the enviable position of being able to retire whenever she wanted. She gave herself one year to prepare for her next chapter, then chose a date to retire and stuck to it.
A Life Well Lived – On Her Terms
Toni enjoyed checking items off her bucket list – home renovations, travel, time with family, and volunteering. She loved pursuing her dreams, finding joy, fulfillment and feeling a renewed sense of purpose every day.
Timing Matters
Tragically, Toni died after a brief illness. She had a couple of years of freedom and adventure during her too-short retirement. After she passed, her brother called me and thanked me for the work we did together. He said she mentioned me often, saying if she didn’t decide to stop worrying about money and get answers to her questions, she probably would have continued to work because she didn’t know any other lifestyle.
The Essential Questions To Answer To Create Financial Freedom
Her inspiring journey affirmed the importance of creating a life of purpose and financial freedom. Working with Toni gave me a much-needed wake-up call to take my own advice. She inspired me to refine my process and focus on offering services that give me a sense of purpose and fulfillment by seeing my clients’ results. For me, guiding women to approach their financial future with certainty, clarity, and confidence is my purpose in life.
As Yogi Berra said, “If you don’t know where you’re going, any road will get you there.” Getting answers to the right questions provides clarity, confidence, and direction. Time is precious. How much sand is left in your hourglass?

Bio:
Therese Nicklas is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ and Certified Success, Money & Business Coach who helps successful women replace money fear with clarity and confidence. After decades in traditional wealth management, she recognized the greatest obstacle to financial freedom wasn’t a number; it was the lack of a judgment-free place to have honest money conversations. Today, she specializes in guiding women through life transitions with clarity and confidence, helping them ask the right questions and make empowered financial decisions that create joy, purpose, and financial freedom.
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